FML
URGHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
my accounts are messed up!!!! and I have to redo them!!!!! OMG.
*%^%^%)(&!@$$#@!^&
just need to get it out of my system before I get down to work.
Ten traits I can’t stand in Men
1. Leaving long fingernails
I mean, seriously, what for guys leave long fingernails? Women having long fingernails are totally justifiable because there’re so many things we can go with them! We get to put blings and stupid nonsense (that cost a bomb) on them and besides, its super useful for catfights. Not that we often get into them anyway. At least, not for me.
So guys, please, trim your nails! And no, you can’t leave the pinky’s nail long as well, that’s only for my ah gong and daddy. When we see clean and short nails, we think,”he is conscious on his overall grooming and is hygenic. besides, he don’t try to act all bengish with his long pinky nail”
2. Kiam siap gui
Ask you out for a date and the bill comes, its 50bucks altgt and he took out 20 bucks and looks at you. Or lagi best, “ehhh! you still owe me 50cents frm last week. i lent you that to buy ice cream, rmb?” No, I don’t, seriously.
3. Too much of a mummy’s boy
When being asked to do anything, his favourite response will be, “huh, I don’t know leh, I need to check with my mummy.” Now, don’t get me wrong. Notifying your parents of whatever you’re doing is good, this shows that you respects them, but! If you’re 23 and you still need your mum’s permission to like, buy a top, then forget it la, go date your own mum,tyvm.
4. Indecisive
Takes forever to make up his mind. When you’re out with him and deciding what to do/what to eat, 9 out of 10 times he will either be, “hmmmmm, i’m not really sure dear..” or “anything lor” Walao eh! I hate the word, “anything lor” what is anything? Is there a food called anything? Or a place called anything?
Personally, I love it when a guy takes charge during the date without being too overbearing. When ordering, he will pick out whichever that he thinks you’re gonna like and present it to you and let you make a choice. He planned out the itinerary for the day and let you know just to make sure you’re gonna like it. And if you don’t, he will tweak it abit here and there to reach a compromise between you and him.
5. Me, myself and I
When talking with him, you realised that the conversation goes on and on when he’s talking about himself. You try to be polite and all nice and listen to his (boring) stories, and when it’s your turn, he shuts off and change the topic after like, 2mins. That’s the signal for you to stop seeing him. Even as friends.
6. Undriven
Totally no security with this type of guys. He has no idea on what he wanna do in life, no drive to do any bloody single thing at all. Is contented with his 1.2k paying job at the comic shop and has no plans on further studies. Heck, this’s one trait I particularly don’t like in both men AND women.
7. Extremely extremely quiet
You talked for like 5 mins straight and all you can get out of him was “hmmm”, “is it?” or “I see”. I think I’m better off talking to a wall.
When guys don’t respond much to a girl, initially the girl will be thrilled to the max esp when she’s the chatty type. But give it say, 2 months, and I can gurantee you, 9 out of 10 times, the girl is going to be very tired of this bullsh*t you’re giving her because she must think of the topics and what to say to fill up the silence during the date(s)!
8. Still depend on his parents for money
Useless. Need I say more? Of course I am talking about people around my age right! I’m not expecting a 13yr old kid providing for himself over here! But for both me and my sister, we’ve start earning our keep when I was 16, and my sis, when she was 15 okay! Totally look down on guys who can’t even provide for themselves.
I mean, you can roughly gauge what his character is like, right? He’s dependent on his parents, he is not driven to go out there and find a job to gain job experience and whatever life learning lessons that comes together with working and he is useless. Oh, I mentioned that already? (granted, I can’t stand this in EVERYONE la)
9. He speaks in Singlish, all the time.
I prefer my man to talk in English to me like, 75% of the time, esp when its all about the romantic and mushy stuff. Imagine a guy confessing his love to you in Singlish?! “Eh woman.. you know ah.. I like you sibeh long already leh. Like, jin jia jin jia gu liao leh.”
To me, there is just something very sexy about a man who speaks perfect English.
10. Ungentleman-ly
It won’t kill you to give up your jacket to the girl if she’s shivering besides you (no need to wait till she asked for it ok!), to pull open the door for her or to send her up to her doorstep because its goddamn late after your date. No, under the block doesn’t count. Don’t you watch movies? Bad guys lurk around the corridors near the house!
ps: this list is not in any specific order, just some ideas I got when I was chatting with my sister a few nights ago before we hit the sack. and of course major things like, violence against women, cheating, liars etc are totally unacceptable as well la! this is more of the nitty gritty stuff.
Abracadabra!
Because of WGM, I get to know this song from Brown Eyed Girls. BEG for short. They have weird group names la but aiyah, their talent makes up for it. It amazes me how come each and every of the pop group has their own signature dance!
Obviously for this song, its the hips swaying la!
One of the member is inside this season’s WGM, and she’s the one sporting the smart short cut with cute little eyes. Her husband in the show, JoKwon lovesss to imitate her dance moves till they even made a MV for it ok! Now can even perform live!
JoKwon is the one who is smaller in build, check out his facial expressions! Hilarious! Mingzhen and I are crazy over young boys right now. But I think her craze is dying for him already. Hahaha!
What’s the big deal?
I’m watching We Got Married, a korean variety show whereby they just pair up a couple (normally famous singers or actors) , just let them live and to do missions together as a married couple. I’ve been watching WGM since its first season and I must say I’m really hooked to the show but then again, thats nt e whole point of this entry.
It seems like in their culture and society, to fart and to burp in front of your spouse is something out of the line and can even be considered as quite a rude action. I don’t get it leh. To burp and fart is totally what every human being can do, and sometimes its also something that we can’t control as well. Can’t possibily whenever the wife/husband wanna fart/burp they will have to rush to the toilet or even more ridiculous, out of the house right?!
In the first season of WGM, one of the “husband” mentioned that he know this married couple for quite some time, and up till then, the wife will go out of the house whenever she wanna fart/defecate. RIDICULOUS RIGHT?!?!?! I know even after marriage, you have this image to upkeep in front of your spouse, but seriously, isn’t that like a bit too exaggerating?!
My advice is, when in a relationship, even when you’re just purely dating, faster fart or burp in front of the guy already. Let him know that you’re human as well and you can’t possibly just run somewhere far away to do all these just because of that perfect image you want him to have of you. Siao, very free ah me?
Besides, if he really loves you, that will be the last thing on his mind la, seriously. If he loves you, a fart and burp won’t tarnish that image and it won’t kill the relationship off like that. It’s only human to do so. Pur-leasseeeee.
Right now I’m getting so comfortable with Joey that we will hav burping competitions with each other (I always lose la, I need a superrrr long time to cultivate one burp) and if I happen to burp real loudly, I will even get him to share the joy with me. Hey! Not everytime I can burp loudly hor! And…… he will be impressed as well. Hahahahaha. I am serious. 
No kidding.
Gabe Bondoc: When You Say
I absolutely absolutely adoreeeeeeeeeee this guy.
Find me a man who can sing like him pls! Serenade meeeeeeeeeee.
His voice is like.. drinking a cup of hot chocolate during a cold rainy night. Warm and everything nice. And this feeling will starts from your stomach and this warmness just spread throughout your body.
thank you (:
Thank you, baby.
For willing to forgo the airshow because you heard the kanqiong-ness in my voice. Thank you for agreeing so readily, with no second thoughts to it.
(:
As sweet as she can be
Just want to let you know, there’s always all the reasons in the world to love you easily. I can’t deny at times I do feel frustrated and irritated with you, but behind all these, there’s really a whole world of reasons to love you as easy as it can be. And even though there’s many times I feel like giving up and stop trying to make this friendship work already, you would surprise me with reasons to love you easily again. It’s just you being you. I do know deep inside you, you have the kind heart and a big heart to love, there’s many reasons why you choose to shut it up and give a strong front to protect yourself as well as to “sting”-yes, it’s difficult to love that side of you. However people need to see your real side to know how wonderful you can be. And babe, do try to show that side of yours more often, you shd know how attractive you yourself are just being that way. Allow more people to see that attractive side of you, really. (:
Mingzhen send me this sms (yes, it’s a sms! she has this great knack of sending uber long smses, hahaha!) after we part our ways, after a long session of people watching, erhem* sharing information and just talking.
Tell me, how not to love this girl?
Victoria’s Secret: Topless Bikini
I don’t get this design.
Hello, cover what? My belly button?
Even if with tanning, you’ll also have a supremely ugly tan line isn’t it? So what is this design about?!
Hachiko
Hachiko: A Dog’s Story. (Inspired by a true story)
I watched this yesterday and I must say, this is a must-watch. It’s even worth a weekend tix. A story of loyalty, faithfulness and love.
Staircase, a scary ghost and an old friend.
I had the scariest dream last night. I’m serious, the scariest in all my 21 yrs and 4 months of life. I woke up with my hands clutching my bolster damn tightly and my heart pounding so wildly against my chest, I thoughts its gg to come out. Gah, when I was telling Joey about it I still got the chills la! Like, reliving it all over again.
**edited: I forgot to mention that ALL the lights were flickering non stop. Like frm the lift landing to the one along the corridors. ALL OF THEM.
败犬目语录 （第十一集）
“我一点也不爱哭。我现在会这样是因为那个可以让我在他怀里大哭的人。。终于回来了。”
-單无双
“。。。就为了一个差8岁这个屁理由，就把我甩得远远的。 。。。。8横过来看也可以是无限大啊。为什么你那么肯定我们之间一定只能有8岁的差距，而不是无限大的可能？！为什么你连试都没有试过就把所有的几率否定了。”
-鲁卡斯
(aww so sad for him! my heart totally feel e pain when he’s saying that with such a sad look on his face!)
Paper-chasing
I realised 2 things when it comes to paper chasing.
1. They do not have any idea what are they going to do after their studies and
2. Getting better qualification equals to a brighter future.
In this generation, people who graduate with a Degree is super common, like it is the norm these days. In fact, anything lower than that, you will get questioned by friends, relatives, whosnot, “Why don’t want to continue to study?!!?!?!” with an alarmed face to boot. Like, it is a crime not to get a Degree!
But, what I realised is, half the time, those who are actually studying for the degree don’t even know why they are in there studying for that particular course or what are they going to do with that qualifications when they’re out. They do not have any clue whatsoever what’s the next step they’re gg to take once this phase of their life is over. They are simply doing something for the sake of doing it.
How is the degree going to help you in your resume?
The knowledge and skills gained during your degree, is it going to help you towards the career path you’ve chosen? Or even better, do you know what kind of job you’re going to take?
Another conception people have, better qualifications = brighter future.
Yes, can’t deny, when you’re armed with degrees and masters and all those paper qualifications that you’ve spent a bomb on learning, is VERY impressive when you’re going for an interview. If I am the employer, looking at your resume, me too will be impressed. But its a different story altogether when you start working isn’t it?
Studying is allowing yourself to gain knowledge and to be equipped with that set of skills you’ve paid (so much) to learn. And how are you going to use it to the fullest potential is another matter, right?
If you want a bright future, you need more than just a piece of paper. Your capability in handling work matters, your interpersonal skills with your colleagues, your boss all plays a very huge part! So what if you can study till masters, till PhD if your performance at work is like shiat? Also, everyone, and I mean EVERYONE needs that stroke of luck in anything they do, even for work. Sometimes, you need Lady Luck to smile at you to make sure your equation for success is going to come true.
I am not saying that degrees or to further your studies is a waste of time or money. I’m not. To further your studies is great, to learn new things to take that one step nearer to whatever you’re planning if you know where you want to go in life. This post is just a random rambling of mine, stuff that I’ve observed or talked about when I’m with friends etc.
If I think that studying is useless I wouldn’t be looking at degree courses le lor!
The Truth
| What is your True Fear?
Your Result: Where Your life is Going
You are a very determined and willful individual. You have strong set goals that you plan to reach no matter what. |
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| Death |
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| Commitment |
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| Being Alone |
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| Losing Someone |
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| Looked down on |
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| Disappointment |
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| What is your True Fear? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz |
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It’s scary how accurate a random quiz from the internet can be. Blardie Hell.
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