Time frame for Love
I’m a firm believer that there is a time frame for everything, a certain time frame for you to apologise, for you to do certain things, and even for love, I believe there is a certain time limit to it for 2 strangers to meet, to get to know each other, and to fall in love. If you’re pass that time frame, and nothing’s done to acknowledge those feelings, then nothing could be done afterwards.
At least, for me, that’s how I feel la.
Just like, can you imagine falling in love with your best friend of 3 years. Like suddenly, no special feelings whatsoever, then one fine day, you look at the person in a new light and think that, hey, I think I’m in love with him/her. Won’t that be very weird? Not to mention the consequences they have to face if the r.ship don’t work out. They might lost a best friend, forever.
Or.
Both person are in love with each other, and they both jolly well know it, but they just refuse to admit it. Time passes, nothing much is done, I can assure you, most of the times, it won’t work out as well. People do get bored and sick waiting for the person to come around to their senses and to do something concrete about it. One of the thing I really hate about the dating game is mind games.
Or there are many more kind of situations la. Just listing down a couple as example.
I think I’ve missed out on a couple of timeframe for love (infatuation, more likely actually) over the past 21years of my life. And I guess it’s really okay if given the time for me to think about it and to convince myself he ain’t that big a deal anyway. (since young i’m damn good at brain-washing myself) But initially, there will be this empty feeling inside me, a sort of a heartache that can’t really be explained fully by words on hw it felt. Haha, oh boy, that sucks.
And baby nearly missed me there, didn’t he? But luckily he came around to his senses at the nick of time.
hmmm.. think this time frame thing really do apply to you only..
haha! i agree there’s always a time to do something but not the point about having a time frame for love though! hahaha!
seen too many of it perhaps?
like gela only officially with wee huat after 1yr?
and jasmine is now together with sze chuan after 3 yrs? hahaha!
jasmine and sze chuan is cos of special circumstances right?
and OH! THEY TGT LE HUH. CONGRATULATIONS!
hahahahahah! did gela and wee huat gt make kwn to each other their feelings?
at least if feelings are made known, nt as tiring.
imagine nv make known, then everyday think, “he like anot?!”
very sian lor!
no la this time frame thing actually do apply to some of my close friends as well.
cos different circumstances bah.
then i guess it depends on how one defines love as well?
hahaha.
for chuan and jasmine, they only develop feelings for each other like 2 yrs back? that means they also know for 3 yrs before they got feelings for each other leh.
hahahaha! they are v close friends back then too, like cai and me. we started as close friends also mah!
and no, we dint find it weird to suddenly for each other leh.. hahaha!
and wee huat and gela, feeling was made known by wee huat la.. he was chasing gela first mah.. but gela did not accept him till 1 yr later.. (:
hmmm.. it can be v tiring if feelings are not made known, true, but it does add more meaning to a relationship after that.
you know? its v meaningful one.
like are you willing to just wait?
imagine, you think jas and chuan not sian they cant together during the initial 2 yrs they like each other? i believe its v sian that they cant be officially also one- thats hw i feel la.
but the impt thing is, they waited for each other because they know they are special to each other right?
and i think thats the impt thing lor.
cai and me waited for quite a period of time also.
and i think thats the impt period for us lor.
we know that we are serious about each other, and we went through that period of ‘difficult’ stage you see.
to tell you the truth, i hold v closely that period of ‘waiting’ cai and me went through leh.
its like the v impt stage of our relationship to make our relationship so fine nw.
seriously im just putting my thoughts while on this topic with you la..
hahaha! i think this kind of ‘waiting’ process does make the guys know they cant take the girls and relationship for granted too.
you know cai, during the ‘waiting’ period actually told me through sms that im exactly the girl he wants to marry, and in near future, see me celebrating all the occasions with his family members? he really wanted that to happen, thats why the ‘waiting’ and all was made worth.
(: hahaha!
hahahha, you’re like telling e whole world how jasmine and sze chuan get tgt la! LOL.
and hw u and cai get tgt. but yes, your this side of explanation make sense too.
its like its more difficult for u guys to get tgt, tts why treasure it more right?
in a way its good too, a v strong foundation for e rship.
pros and cons for everything la.
hahahahha! better make sure he marry u!
hahahah! well, if he is not God chosen one, i also got no choice right!
hahahaha!
but of course, we work towards it lor.
hehehe! i think the impt thing is, he adds on, blesses, and teaches me many things during this 3 yrs of my life bah, the impt things which need to be learned at this age. hahaha!
and also, the way i add and bless his family and him lor.
if really cannot be together in the end, i just hope the ending is neutral and good, nth sour between us, after all, he has been an important someone in my life for the past few yrs. hahaha! i think the journey itself, must be as impt than the ending. (: